Tuesday, March 07, 2006

Shocking News

Mich~
Got a shock today! My friend, told me she wants to file for divorce with her husband. Hah..?? I asked her repeatedly if she was sure, and she was adamant about it. I could not believe it, as she was married for only about 2 years ++. On my further probing, I began to realise that the crack in her marriage was really beyond repair. She cited several reasons on why she wanted a divorce, and I began to empathise with her. It turned out that her husband has been hiding several things from her, one of which included his religious belief. When my friend realised it recently, she got the shock of her life. She could not believe that her other half was quite "obsessed" with this belief, to the extent of doing things which are out of ordinary....believe it, when she told me, I felt goose pimples popping up...It came to a point that she was actually fearful of him, of what would be the things that he could do in future (if any). Guess that was the breaking point for her, and she made up her mind from there. It also seemed that he was abusive, and he did not really repent and make amends as he promised.
Sigh...it really made me to think of how fragile a marriage could be. And i could still recall vividly the day when she told me she was getting married to this guy, I actually asked her if she was sure. At that moment, she gave me a firm "yes" and cited deep love for him as the reason. Now, look at how things took a turn, and how feelings could change over time........how about you? Are you truly sure of your feelings before jumping into a relationship?

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